Growing up on the farm with Mum a schoolteacher, we had a live-in housekeeper for 9 years until the early 1970s. In the last 20 years, we’ve fallen out of contact but one of my friends is her cousin’s son. I was able to contact him & his mother gave my phone number to the former housekeeper. She called a few minutes ago & I was able to give her Mum’s funeral details.