Mum at the age of 90 will be going into permanent aged care in January. The costs of doing so mean her 15-year-old house will have to be sold. We need to get rid of her 24 year-old car as well. It’s worth nothing. The decluttering will be a nightmare: she’s a retired schoolteacher & there’s hundreds of video & audio tapes plus DVDs & books to go somewhere, too.