Just had a call from cousin Colin His wife Wendy died overnight from a heart attack. The funeral is on Friday in Wagga Wagga. That's over 500 km away. Mum feels someone should go but it's really hard on her back to go for more than a few hours per day. We'd have to overnight somewhere on Thursday night and Friday on the trip back. Mum has two sisters on the way, one is 340 km away, the other is over 400 and a bit out of the way. It's awkward, the nearer sister has only one spare bed & the other sister looks after her husband who's had a few strokes lately. They're all in their mid-to-early 80s.